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DTMFA
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Etymology
Coined by sex advice columnist Dan Savage, in Savage Love.
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en dump the motherfucker already, as advice to a partner in a relationship.
en March 31, 2004 Gallilea Savage Love disses wannabe moos alt.support.childfree https://groups.google.com/forum/#!search/dtmfa$20sex/alt.support.childfree/kUDkB_IvtVc/htUao6WAxpsJ But you should be terrified of committing to a woman who wants to make a baby with you after two months, to say nothing of seeing your kid raised in some crackpot religion and that describes every last one of 'em, in my opinion. DTMFA.
en January 17, 2007 Phil Carmody Re: Childfree Abby - Odour of Sancticity Group alt.support.childfree https://groups.google.com/forum/#!search/dtmfa$20relationship/alt.support.childfree/tBjgisAHg0c/c-HxAzc2bckJ Arrogant bitch. Oi! Catholic bloke - DTMFA, she's too self-centred and controlling.
en January 23, 2008 Pat Kight Re: Some Advice? alt.polyamory https://groups.google.com/forum/#!search/dtmfa$20relationship/alt.polyamory/ru_8WXrdx98/iqbY7tiqWUMJ She needs to stop lying. She needs to start protecting you from STD risk and unplanned pregnancy. I know I only have your side to look at, but I'm tempted to tell you to DTMFA ... I know that wouldn't be helpful, though, as you've said it's not what you want. But still, yeesh.
en May 8, 2009 Mike Dworetsky Re: Why are there so many men on Earth??? fj.kanji https://groups.google.com/forum/#!search/dtmfa$20sex/fj.kanji/nPOh7BP2CNE/ssijeCrmc3wJ If you're interested in the biological-evolutionary question, 'The Red Queen' by Matt Ridley is a very informative and clearly written pop-sci book on the subject. Otherwise I recommend the classics: chocolate, alcohol, and if you have not already done so, DTMFA.
en September 5, 2010 hls Re: Dreadful advice but quite hilarious alt.activism.death-penalty https://groups.google.com/forum/#!search/dtmfa$20relationship/alt.activism.death-penalty/v27pmZJqhWo/rquTQpAyZr0J Agree. This isnt a relationship....he wants a sex toy. And apparently he tires quickly of the game. DTMFA
en June 26, 2012 Paul Ciszek Re: OK, I am really getting sick of 9CWL rec.arts.comics.strips https://groups.google.com/forum/#!search/dtmfa$20advice/rec.arts.comics.strips/M_TAgKMlPXo/cOdTada2QbkJ In fact, one could argue that in this case Edda needs to OYM,SYP while Amos needs to DTMFA --and may in fact have already done so.
en 2013 Sadie Nardini The 21-Day Yoga Body: A Metabolic Makeover and Life-Styling Manual to Get You Fit, Fierce, and Fabulous in Just 3 Weeks Random House https://books.google.com/books?isbn=0385347073 978-0385347068 Honestly, if you asked your romantic partner, 'How do I look today?' and he or she replied, “Oh my gosh, you look like a huge, fat pig, and you're totally disgusting,' you'd probably DTMFA Day 12: Theme: Date Yourself
en 2017 Julia Kent 1015247278 The Her Billionaires Series Mega Boxed Set https://books.google.com/books?id=ruw7DwAAQBAJ DTMFA. Both of them. Because the lack of respect they'd shown her told her everything she needed to know, even if that feeling of 'fuck you' went against everything her heart was crying out right now, its words pleading with her to give them at least a quick meeting to hear why they hid this from her.
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