Elna Baker

Elna Baker (born January 1982) is an American writer and comedian. She is also an executive producer for the radio program This American Life. In October 2009, Penguin Books published her book The New York Regional Mormon Singles Halloween Dance (0525951350), which chronicles her experience as a young, single Mormon living in New York City. Quotes When I’m stuck on a particular story I go back to an Allen Ginsberg line that has always helped: “Notice what you notice.” I close my eyes and try to remember all the things I noticed as it was happening. This opens up my memory and helps me bridge the gap between what’s in my head and what’s on the page. On her process as a writer Venezia Angelina Exclusive: Elna Baker, Author of The New York Mormon Regional Singles Halloween Dance, On Humiliation and the Art of Smart Storytelling http://flavorwire.com/6255/exclusive-elna-baker-author-of-the-new-york-mormon-regional-singles-halloween-dance-on-humiliation-and-the-art-of-storytelling Flavorwire 15 April 2019 en 23 December 2008 I also hear another reassuring voice. Someday Elna, it says, you will look around the room at your husband and children and the rich, full life you've built for yourself. And you will be so proud of the choices you've made. That's the voice I'm listening to. On her decision to maintain her virginity Jake "Yes, I'm a 27-Year-Old Virgin" https://www.glamour.com/story/yes-im-a-27-year-old-virgin Glamour Condé Nast 15 April 2019 en October 1, 2009 My whole life I had done my best to uphold those rigid tenets—I believed obedience would get me what I thought I wanted: a temple marriage to another Mormon...And then it really hit me: I wasn't a virgin anymore. That part of my identity was gone, and I had to face the fact that, at 28, I had no idea who I was...And though I'm still struggling with my faith (and hadn't told my parents the news before publishing this essay forced me to!), I'm the same Elna I've always been. Now I realize that those were just things I made up to scare myself, to keep me from having to deal with the real questions of what was happening in my life. I don't regret losing my virginity, but I also don't regret waiting. I know now that it's a very personal journey. On her decision to have sex before marriage Baker Elna "Guess What? I'm Not a Virgin Anymore!" http://www.glamour.com/story/guess-what-im-not-a-virgin-anymore 1 August 2016 Glamour 28 March 2011 https://web.archive.org/web/20160728083642/http://www.glamour.com/story/guess-what-im-not-a-virgin-anymore 28 July 2016 no dmy-all It's a very strange time of life. I go on a lot of long walks. I stopped watching television for a year so I wouldn't avoid my feelings. All I read are self-help books. And when I go to parties, I corner divorced people and badger them for details about what this was like for them and how they got through it. Divorce is like my own personal disaster porn. On her divorce from her husband 665: Before Things Went to Hell https://www.thisamericanlife.org/665/transcript This American Life 15 April 2019 12 January 2019 https://web.archive.org/web/20190203062747/https://www.thisamericanlife.org/665/transcript 3 February 2019 no dmy-all External links Category:1982 births Category:Living people Category:Stand-up comedians from the United States Category:Humorists from the United States Category:Bloggers from the United States Category:Memoirists from the United States Category:Women authors from the United States Category:People from Washington (state) Category:Comedians from the United States Category:Producers from the United States