Anne Tonni Lodick Mthembu

Annie Mthembu (born 1992), née Ludick, is a South African businesswoman and reality television personality. She is best known as a cast member of The Real Housewives of Durban. Quotes “My husband at the time just felt like everything that we were going through did not need to be publicised and there were cracks already on TV. If you were smart you could see certain things. He was just like no, we’re not doing this again. Let’s recoup in silence. Let’s see what happening. Let’s deal with this as a family at home. No one needs to be involved in our lives. We just need to protect the family so leave the show.” “This isn’t about gossip, drama, or anyone’s downfall. It’s about growth, healing, and the courage to walk in truth. My hope is that someone out there who feels stuck, silenced, or afraid to choose themselves will hear my story and know, you are not alone, and your happiness matters. This is not the end of my story. It’s the next chapter.” “No, I wasn’t. I was pretending. I was struggling with so much internally and I had this thing that I had to perform strength, just be strong, be this person that I’ve been from season 1. The emotions were overwhelming.” “The breaking point for me was me losing myself trying to save the marriage. When I started losing myself and chasing my marriage, trying to keep everything together. I stopped paying attention to my kids because now I’m focused on keeping my husband and myself together.” Annie Mthembu on leaving RHOD, marriage struggles;By Hmetro,Retrieved on August 14, 2025 "I didn’t really know what to expect, but I can say that producing television is no child’s play. It takes a lot out of you emotionally and physically. I would have to think very hard about doing something like this again. The bag would have to be worth the time I have to take out of being at work" "They’re super chilled, I think my mother was a bit concerned when she heard about it because she thinks I’m “sensitive” little did she know… lol" "I have been recognised in my spaces and from social media, but it’s definitely become more frequent now. I had a lady follow me around the grocery store once… even some people approaching me in the mall to tell me what a troublemaker I am (this had me rollinnnngg with laughter)" "My family are quite open minded, they were not so involved in the shooting but they watch the show every week and we all have a giggle together at the things that go down on the show" Exclusive: #RHOD Annie Ludick Spills The Tea;By ZAlebs External links Annie Mthembu: Biography, Age, Ex, Husband, Business Category:living people