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Bengali/Family relations
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In Bengali Muslim culture:
These are the "titles" for family members. With the exception of Father, Mother, and Grandparents (who are called by the title only), all of these titles are added after the name of the person.
Father: Baba, Abba, Abbu
Mother: Maa, Amma, Ammu
Son/Daughter: Address by name or Amar/Onner–Chele/Meye
Brother (also male cousins): Bhai/Bhaiya
Brother's Wife: Bhabi
Younger Brother: Choto bhai or by name
Sister (also female cousins) : Apu, or Apa, Afa, Api
Older Sister: Didi, Apu, or Apa
Younger Sister: Choto bon or by name
Sister's Husband: Dulabhai
Father's Younger Brother: Kaku, Kaka, Choto Chachu, Or Sasu Or Chacha
Father's Younger Brother's Wife: Chachiamma/Chachiammu, Sasima, Kaki, or Choto Chachi
Father's Oldest Brother: Zetha, Boro Chachu or Chacha
Father's Oldest Brother's Wife: Zethi, Zethi amma/ Zethi ammu, Boro Chachi.
Father's Sister: Fupu, Fupi, Fupuamma or hufu, fufu
Father's Sister's Husband: Fupa, fufa or mama(uncle)
Mother's Brother: Mama
Mother's Brother's Wife: Mami, mamani
Mother's Sister: Khala, Khalamma, Khalamoni, auntiemoni, mamani ,boro auntie
Mother's Sister's Husband: Khalu, mama(uncle)
Paternal Grandfather: Dada
Paternal Grandmother: Dadu
Maternal Grandfather: Nana, Nanabhai
Maternal Grandmother: Nanu, Nanuapu
Husband’s or Wife's Father: Abba, Abbu, Baba
Husband’s or Wife's Mother: Amma, Ammu, Maa
Wife's Younger Sister: Shali
Wife's Younger Brother: Shala
Wife's Elder Sister: Nonosh
Wife's Elder Brother: brother titles
Husband’s Elder Brother: Bhai Shoshur or brother titles
Husband’s Elder Brother’s Wife: Bhabi
Husband’s Younger Brother: Debor, Dewar
Husband’s Younger Brother’s wife: calls by name
Husband’s Younger Sister:Nonod
Husband's Older Sister: any of sister titles with elder prefixes
Husband’s Sister’s Husband: Dulabhai, can call by name if younger
Brother’s Son: by name
Brother’s Daughter: By name
Sister’s Son: by name
Sister’s Daughter: by name
Cousins are considered to be "brother" or "sister".
If someone has 6 brothers or sisters then their relation names will be the following respectively: boro, mejo, choto.
If your Mum or Dad is the oldest of the siblings they will call the younger siblings by their name and their wives or husbands will. Unless the siblings’ husband is older than your parents Bhai or Bhaiya.
Suto/huro- prefix for people younger
Meso- prefix for middle but elder
Boro- prefix for eldest
Bora- prefix for elderly
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