Adventist Youth Honors Answer Book/Outreach/Peace Maker

1 2009 Outreach North American Division 1. Define conflict and discuss the difference between good and bad conflict. Conflict can be defined as a disagreement or opposition arising from incompatible interests, ideas, beliefs, values, or goals. It's an internal or external struggle that occurs when two or more parties perceive a threat to their needs, interests, or concerns. It is a natural part of human interaction. Good conflict is generally characterized by focusing on issues rather than personalities and is handled with respect. It often leads to positive outcomes. Bad conflict focuses on personalities and is often handled with hostility, antagonism, or avoidance. It tends to harm relationships and is characterized by a desire to win or punish the other person. 2. Identify the 4 causes of conflict as described in the Bible. Read the following passages for assistance == a Acts 15:1-2 Differences in ideas b 1 Corinthians 12:12-31 - Diversity of perspective c Genesis 13:1-12 - Greed/Competition for resources d James 4:1-3 - Pride 3. Identify each segment of the slippery slope of addressing conflict, and discuss examples of each type from the Bible and your own experiences. A. ESCAPE Denial in the bible Blame Game Run Away B. ATTACK put away Gossip Fight C. WORK-IT-OUT/CONCILIATION Overlook Talk-It-Out Get Help 4. Reverse role-play a conflict from your own life and identify where you are on the “slippery slope” and what possible conciliation options you might try. Talking it out with the person. References The Young Peacemaker by "Peacemaker Ministries"